I want to get my ear pierced, but where?

im a guy and want to get some peircings, just wondinger which would look good, so my question is what do you think would look good, im generally thinking of getting just the left side done since i like tattoos more then piercings and i got the type of ear that stick out, :P,, i have a left lob peircing now im thinking of getting a rook( highest fold of cartilage, beneath the Helix) and at most later on a pinna... but quick question it may be stupid but im not that familiar with piercings, the rook and pinna arent considered a "girl piercing".. right? cause like i want to get them somewhere others dont usuaally have but not if its in a spot ment for girls